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Vernon  J. DeFlanders
Vernon J. DeFlanders

Author • Mentor • Voice of Generational Wisdom 

Vernon J DeFlanders is a deeply respected author and mentor whose work speaks to the heart of life’s most important journey—growing into the person you’re meant to be. With a focus on the formative years, his writing empowers young people to face challenges with resilience, make wiser choices, and embrace emotional growth through lived experience.

Vernon's wisdom isn’t theoretical—it’s forged through decades of real-life lessons, including his service with distinction as a U.S. Air Force veteran during the Vietnam War. His words resonate with clarity, compassion, and purpose, offering timeless guidance to those standing at life’s crossroads.

“The greatest lessons in life are not taught—they’re lived.”

Whether through books, essays, or mentorship, Vernon continues to inspire readers of all ages to live with intention, courage, and authenticity.

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Teaching Children How to Pray and the Reasons for It: Guiding Parents and Grandparents in Teaching Children the Power of Prayer

As a believing parent, grandparent, or other caregiver, you already know the power of prayer and how to pray in faith and trust. Facing life’s many challenges leads you to a deep, intuitive knowledge of when it is time to use prayer to nourish your spirit, give praise and thanks, or ask for help and guidance. For children, it might be difficult...

Rise Again: A Teen’s Guide to Overcoming Life’s Challenges

Rise Again: A Teen’s Guide to Overcoming Life’s Challenges Is an empowering resource designed to help young adults navigate the complexities of adolescence. This thoughtful guide addresses teenagers’ pressures and struggles—from academic stress and social challenges to personal growth and resilience. Through a blend of practical advice and...

Beyond Acquaintances: Understanding and Cultivating Friendships

Friendships are a reflection of our personal growth and the values we hold dear. By embracing reflection, applying what we’ve learned, committing to self-improvement, and celebrating our progress, we can create relationships that bring joy, support, and meaning to our lives. The journey of friendship is ongoing, filled with opportunities to...

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From the Flightline to the Frontline of NonFiction: Meet Vernon J.

Hello fellow book lovers,

My name is Vernon, and I’m truly excited to join this vibrant community of readers, reviewers, and literary explorers. Before we dive into discussing characters, plots, and page-turners, I thought I’d take a moment to introduce myself and share a little about the journey that brought me here.

A Life Woven with Service and Storytelling

I was born in segregated Mississippi, raised during a time when stories—especially those of hope, dignity, and resilience—were more than...

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A Series Introduction to the Life Lessons Library

Vernon J DeFlanders doesn’t just write books—he builds bridges between generations.

As a passionate author, seasoned mentor, and a U.S. Air Force veteran with a lifetime of hard-won wisdom, Vernon has made it his life’s work to guide NextGen Adults—teenagers and young adults navigating the complex path to personal growth and independence.

This series, Lighting the Path Forward, is designed to share his insights, stories, and resources with those...

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